Your Core Aspects and the Law of Attraction
The core aspect of self-awareness is self-acceptance. It is the ability to know and accept yourself as you are. It is about the old Chinese concept that an object is what you make of it, or in other words that you have to “improve” yourself before you can improve your surroundings.
Acceptance is about looking within yourself to find your own unique core strengths and weaknesses, and then using these strengths and weaknesses to build your strength and weaknesses into your daily habits and reactions. The core aspect of self-awareness does not reject any part of yourself, it just learns to live with imperfections, because they are who we are, and how we are made.
I’ve heard a quote from Ghandi: “I was born last, so I am. I am created last, so I am. All that I do and have is my birthright.” Self Acceptance removes the limiting thoughts of “I can’t”, “I can’t do that, it will never work out, and it’s just not right”. Self-Acceptance is the very first step on the road to true freedom.
Some people are very good at recognizing their strengths and weaknesses. They are able to use these two aspects of themselves to excel in areas that would seem difficult for them.
However, for most people, their core self awareness, their emotional stability, their understanding of themselves and their world, and their focus on life’s bigger picture, their daily habits and their reactions to stress and to life in general, are not strong enough to handle the demands of truly challenging situations, and they can’t seem to get off the treadmill of self-defeating thinking.
These people feel helpless and lost, even when life’s challenges are large and seemingly insurmountable.
They can’t seem to get ahead or solve the problems they face. Their core aspect of themselves is stuck in a self-defeating pattern, holding them back from living life fully. They have accepted their weaknesses, their imperfections, and their limited talents, and they’ve convinced themselves that there’s nothing else they can do about it.
They continue to live this way, day in and day out. This is a big mistake.
Let me make it clear: You can’t fix your mind by improving one facet of yourself at the expense of another. If you truly want to improve yourself, you must also improve your awareness of your capabilities and your mindset. These core aspects of your character are what will help you conquer your personal limits. You can only be at your best for so long before the wear and tear of everyday living causes you to look for ways to give up and retire.
Yet, unless you realize that you’re a victim of your own limitations and flaws, you will never know how to fully enjoy your life – until you start to change your perception of who you are.
For some people, it’s easier to build a new negative self image than it is to build a positive one. When you spend your life denying your real-life flaws, you’ll find that it becomes impossible to feel good about who you are as an individual – until you accept, understand, and resolve them.
Once you have reached this point in your life, your inner conversations and interactions with other people will be more balanced and realistic. This means you’ll have more enjoyable relationships, be more successful at work, and achieve a deeper sense of peace and tranquility in your life.
Your core self awareness consists of the beliefs and attitudes that govern your emotions, your sense of self, and your general approach to life. All of these areas are intertwined, but there are three specific aspects that are most crucial to your well-being. These are: your personal integrity, your ability to set and reach goals, and your ability to trust yourself. When you don’t feel good about yourself, you’ll have trouble trusting yourself.
If you think you have something to hide, you’ll avoid seeking truth. If you don’t take stock of who you really are, you’ll never know what’s best for you.
It’s important to remember that your thoughts and your actions are ultimately governed by your subconscious mind. To that end, you’ll need to learn how to become aware of, and respond to, your core aspect (or aspects) of who you are.
You can do this through a daily practice of quiet reflection – beginning with what you notice about yourself in any given moment. Over time, you’ll be able to look at those aspects and determine how they’re working for you. Then you can apply your new knowledge to your life and create a more fulfilling experience.